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Are you predator or prey?

 

are you predator or prey?

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Clay | ReadSowell.com 


I'm putting this piece back in your inbox today.

Predator and Prey... I wrote it a month ago yesterday on facebook. Of everything I've written this year, this one is the spine. Every email, every case file, every fight on facebook lives downstream of the doctrine in this piece. This is where my predator and prey framework was synthesized.

Most of you haven't read it. The ones who did saw it once and may have forgotten. Today's the day to take another look.

When this piece first dropped on Facebook a month ago, the comments stunned me. A couple stuck with me. Putting it back in your inbox so you can read it the way they did.


"Some of the finest writing to grace the internet exists in this post."
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"You give language to what others only dimly sense. The thinker, and the listener alike."
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Read it slow... There's a door at the bottom if you want in my inner circle, but spots are running out. You can also read the piece on stopbeingprey.com if you prefer. click here

PREDATOR AND PREY by Clay

Charlie Kirk is dead. Shot in the neck at a college campus. He was 31.

Donald Trump lived because he turned his head at the last second. An inch the other way and we'd have buried him too.

And I watched progressives celebrate both of those moments. I watched them wish the bullet hadn't missed. I see it every day in my comments. I see the bloodlust behind their eyes and their words when I make an argument or ask a question they can't answer or don't like the implications of. I feel it. You'd have to be asleep not to. These people hate us. Truly. They do not mean us well. I pray for them.

Most of them won't pull a trigger. They're prey, not predators. But when someone else does? They feel a little glee. They look the other way. They say “oh dear” with half a heart and then they move on. At least it wasn't their guy. They'll even rationalize it and say we attacked ourselves. Jimmy Kimmel will announce it to the sound of claughter. Laughter + clapping, if you are unaware.

You've seen it. I've seen it. That's the world we're actually living in.

So let me tell you how I think about politics now.

Not as a Republican or Democrat. Not as a conservative or liberal. Not as a communist or a capitalist, even. Those categories still matter, but they're not the ones that decide who wins anymore. There's a deeper frame, and once you see it, you can't unsee it.

Predator and prey. That's it. Study this, understand your role in this thing and you will become dangerous.

Every politician is one or the other. Every movement. Every voter. Every commenter in my feed. You reading this right now. And before you ask about their policies, their voting record, or their position on anything, you need to ask one question: can they fight? Or will they fold? Are they on someone's leash, or do they put others on leashes?

Because a politician with all the right opinions who folds under pressure is worse than useless. He'll lead you into the lion's den and surrender at the gate. He'll get your people hurt. He'll get your nation killed. But he sounds good. He looks good. He'll say all the right things. This one is actually more dangerous than your enemies.

Pierre Poilievre, the Canadian Conservative leader, for example, had the right opinions. Then he sat on Joe Rogan's podcast and when asked about his opposition he said “I won't criticize him on foreign soil. We have a mutual respect.” That's prey. He handed Carney a majority government with those words. The policies didn't save him. The politeness got him eaten. And now he wants you to keep following him. Worse than useless.

If you have to choose between a predator who agrees with you 50% and prey who agrees with you 100%, you pick the predator. Every time. The predator at least gets something done. Prey gets your side massacred with their principles intact. This is why I have no problem saying I support Trump, even when he does things I hate, and he does.

He's not Kamala Harris or Hillary Clinton. That's enough. He's an apex predator who shares many of my same enemies. That's enough. I don't need a perfect libertarian, or else I have a hissy fit. I am an adult. I've read my Thomas Sowell and internalized the lessons. “There are no solutions, there are only tradeoffs.”

Now here's the hard part:

Not everyone is built for this fight. Most people aren't. That's not an insult. It's reality. And I want you to hear me clearly: being prey is not a shame. Prey is precious. Our mothers. Our children. Our sick and old men. They are what we fight for. They are the whole point. Raising kids is more important than politics. Building a business to serve your community is more important than politics. Tending a garden is more important than politics.

If that's you, understand this. You are everything. You are what young men are willing to die for. Do not waste the security that brave men offer you. Build things, nurture life, follow Him.

But if you're prey and you insist on being in politics pretending to be a predator, you are a danger to all of us. Every time you fold, you teach our enemies that we break. Every time you apologize for a fighter on our side, you tell them they can push harder. Every time you tone-police the people defending you, you hand them the bat.

So ask yourself honestly. Are you predator or prey?

If you're prey, find your champions. Support them. Amplify them. Pray for them. I aim to be one of them for you.

If you're a predator, or you want to become one, I've got something for you.

I'm writing a book. It's called Stop Being Prey. It's a weapon. It's going to teach conservatives how to fight the way our enemies fight, but with something they don't have. Grace. Soul. The willingness to pray for the people we're dismantling.

The stakes are simple. You get eaten or you don't. Your nation survives or it doesn't. Your children grow up free or under the control of people who hate them.

I know which side I'm on.

Are you with me?

~ Clay
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Bryson’s big personality







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Bryson’s big personality and bigger Round 1 score. Plus: Don’t be late to your tee time

Bryson DeChambeau reacts on the ninth green during the first round of the PGA Championship golf tournament at Aronimink Golf Club.

Bill Streicher

Golf Briefing ⛳ | This is The Athletic’s daily newsletter for the 2026 PGA Championship. Sign up here to receive the Golf Briefing directly in your inbox.

The Athletic has live coverage of the PGA Championship second round

Good evening! We’re back with you to cover the first round of the PGA Championship. Gabby is on the course at Aronimink. First up, leaderboard:

T-1. Scottie Scheffler
T-1. Aldrich Potgieter (-3)
T-1. Stephan Jaeger
T-1. Min Woo Lee
T-1. Ryo Hisatsune
T-1. Martin Kaymer
T-1. Alex Smalley
T-8. Sahith Theegala (-2)
T-8. Xander Schauffele and a few more

Now, on to a notable absence:


DeChambles: The psychology of Bryson’s latest major flop

The big storyline about Bryson DeChambeau these days: With LIV Golf hurting and his YouTube empire thriving, no one knows where he’ll play golf next year. But here’s a corollary to that: Assuming you don’t watch LIV events (and you probably don’t), do you remember the last time you watched DeChambeau play a memorable round?

It certainly wasn’t today just outside Philadelphia, where the big man immediately removed himself from contention by firing a 6-over 76. His major starts since a T-2 at last year’s PGA:

  • Missed cut at the U.S. Open at Oakmont
  • T-10 at the Open Championship at Royal Portrush
  • Missed cut at the Masters

That undersells it, though: DeChambeau, 32, finished well at Portrush, but if you remember, he shot 7 over par Thursday and was never remotely in the chase. He wasn’t even in it, really, at last year’s PGA, with Scottie Scheffler (and briefly Jon Rahm) well clear of everyone on the weekend. This could all change as soon as next month, when the two-time U.S. Open winner heads to Shinnecock Hills for a bearish test. But for now, it’s bad.

It got worse today, when DeChambeau was 4 over before he even made the turn. This lag putt was the most illustrative moment of his day:

We had to cut the GIF there because the ball kept rolling for almost 20 more seconds.

More from Gabby:

💬 “As expected, DeChambeau blew by the media after his round and headed straight for the driving range. But I got the chance to catch up with his swing coach, Dana Dahlquist, for a few moments. He told me DeChambeau just needed to iron out a few things in his swing — nothing drastic or serious. And

“Dahlquist confirmed to me that the tinkering had nothing to do with DeChambeau’s ever-changing equipment. DeChambeau’s round went sideways today because of a few “bad breaks” and “bad reactions,” his coach said. He believes that DeChambeau could have let some early mistakes roll off his back.

“I asked Dahlquist if he and DeChambeau ever discuss the mental side of the game, and he told me he does not. Dahlquist says DeChambeau truly believes he is the best player in the world, and because of his large personality, Dahlquist says he doesn’t need to instill any more confidence in DeChambeau: The player has that covered.”

Heading into Friday, DeChambeau is beating 15 players in the PGA Championship’s 156-man field. Ten of them are club pros.

It wasn’t just Bryson, to be fair. Other disappointing scores include Ludvig Åberg and Tyrrell Hatton at +2, Rory McIlroy and Viktor Hovland at +4 and Wyndham Clark at +5.

Over to another quick update from Gabby:


The Turn: Make your tee time, please

It never hurts to have a good ol’ rules controversy at a major championship, but today’s was totally avoidable and blown out of proportion.

Here’s what happened: Garrick Higgo, the 27-year-old South African PGA Tour player, showed up to his 7:18 a.m. tee time at the PGA Championship sometime after 7:18 a.m. We know this because a PGA of America official informed Higgo that he was late as soon as he walked up to the tee, immediately notifying the player that he’d received a two-shot penalty for his tardiness.

According to Rule 5.3 in the Rules of Golf, that’s what happens when you arrive no more than five minutes late to your tee time. More than five minutes late? You’re disqualified from the tournament. So in that sense, Higgo got lucky.

  • By the end of the day, Higgo had recorded 67 shots at Aronimink but posted a 1-under 69. And after the round, Higgo tried to make his case to the PGA of America that the clock still read 7:18 a.m. when he was walking up to the tee, while simultaneously acknowledging he was late.
  • His excuses ranged from being too cold, to not having his phone or watch on him, to being a chill person who doesn’t like to show up early to the tee. In the midst of all of this, he delivered an undeniably hilarious quote: “I was there on time, but the rule is, if you’re one second late, you’re late. So if you think about it, I was there on time.”

Higgo would have been much better off just taking the penalty on the chin. If you’ve ever played in a golf tournament or been around one, you know this: You get to the tee 10 minutes before your tee time. What happened to Higgo is incredibly rare because it’s such an avoidable error. Higgo pushed the limits, and he had to pay for it. End of story.

Moving on:


The Links

It never hurts to have a good ol’ rules controversy at a major championship, but today’s was totally avoidable and blown out of proportion.

Here’s what happened: Garrick Higgo, the 27-year-old South African PGA Tour player, showed up to his 7:18 a.m. tee time at the PGA Championship sometime after 7:18 a.m. We know this because a PGA of America official informed Higgo that he was late as soon as he walked up to the tee, immediately notifying the player that he’d received a two-shot penalty for his tardiness.

According to Rule 5.3 in the Rules of Golf, that’s what happens when you arrive no more than five minutes late to your tee time. More than five minutes late? You’re disqualified from the tournament. So in that sense, Higgo got lucky.

  • By the end of the day, Higgo had recorded 67 shots at Aronimink but posted a 1-under 69. And after the round, Higgo tried to make his case to the PGA of America that the clock still read 7:18 a.m. when he was walking up to the tee, while simultaneously acknowledging he was late.
  • His excuses ranged from being too cold, to not having his phone or watch on him, to being a chill person who doesn’t like to show up early to the tee. In the midst of all of this, he delivered an undeniably hilarious quote: “I was there on time, but the rule is, if you’re one second late, you’re late. So if you think about it, I was there on time.”

Higgo would have been much better off just taking the penalty on the chin. If you’ve ever played in a golf tournament or been around one, you know this: You get to the tee 10 minutes before your tee time. What happened to Higgo is incredibly rare because it’s such an avoidable error. Higgo pushed the limits, and he had to pay for it. End of story.

Moving on:


The Links

😬  Jon Rahm apologetic after striking PGA Championship volunteer with his divot”

💔 Speaking of Rahm: Though he played well today (-1), he’s reaping the consequences of his decisions these days, as Brendan Quinn explains.

🎥 Brendan also got some of the best players in the world to (try to) pronounce various important Philadelphian terms. Tag yourself; I’m “Schuylkill.”

🏆 Jim Furyk, once and future captain of the U.S. Ryder Cup team, talked about how the Americans can organize themselves to stop losing the event.

🗣️ Find The Athletic’s live coverage of every round here, starting early each day.


Watch Guide

  • Round 2 TV coverage: 12-8 p.m. ET on ESPN
  • Streaming: Starting at 6:45 a.m. on ESPN+

One group to follow: Min Woo Lee, Sahith Theegala and Patrick Cantlay at 1:21 p.m. ET. Lee is only 27, but it feels like he’s lived through several major life cycles already. He was a solid, occasionally competitive major performer in 2023 and most of 2024, peaking with a T-5 at the ‘23 U.S. Open. He’s since missed four major cuts in a row (and five of six). But he fired a 3-under 67 today and, with the major exception of the Masters, has played nicely all season. Theegala (-2) and Cantlay (E) are in the mix, too.

See you back here tomorrow.


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David B.

· 9h 53m ago

Bryson is an irrelevance to the real golfing world.

He has a nice little niche audience on YouTube and that’s it, he’s one of the most disliked golfers in history.

The media (including the Athletic) are so pathetically desperate to build him up to be some sort of superstar when he doesn’t actually move the needle at a real golf event.

I had a look at the LIV Mexico viewing figures:

R3 on FS1: 54,000
R4 after Bryson pulled out on FS1: 49,000

He’s a complete non-event and if he retired from professional tournament golf tomorrow no one who watches golf tournaments on TV would care.


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Andrew S.

· 16h 11m ago

He can't focus without his personal camera crew.


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Ben K.

· 14h 15m ago

Most annoying golfer on planet Earth. His fake dude bro schtick only appeals to preteen boys and unemployed incels.


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Matt D.

· 14h 26m ago

Look, I’m not necessarily proud of this, but I get all schadenfreude-y when this phony, shallow ball of greed blows up.


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Ekkc D.

· 16h 28m ago

That’s more Karma for taking the PIF money. He’d take money from the Taliban or Nazis.


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Sharon S.

· 14h 51m ago

Watching on the weekend will be much more enjoyable without DeChambles. Wonder who/what he will blame, because it’s never been his responsibility.

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Ekkc D.

· 7h 10m ago

@Sharon S. I wonder where that comes from….


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Pete W.

· 12h 9m ago

Big personality?? Guy has zero personality - just a fake persona he plays at for the cameras.

More importantly he’s lacking distance control with his irons and has zero touch around and on the greens. Not a good combo.


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Fernando O.

· 12h 3m ago

Too much noise in his head nowadays to play good golf. LIV stars compete in various parallel competitions: the PGA champ itself; the It Was Not a Wrong Decision championship; the We are as Good as Scotty or Rory championship; the Everything is Ok with LIV championship; the PGA should bring Me Back championship; … too many competitions at a time. Difficult to perform


· 14h 39m ago

Lurch has always been a train wreck waiting to happen. Guy acts like he invented golf. For a guy that has won exactly two majors, he gets far more publicity than he deserves.


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Keyshawn D.

· 14h 31m ago

No problem, Bryson can fly home and print out a better score card.


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Anonymous U.

· 13h 0m ago

There are a lot of bots out there right now confused and bewildered, waiting for their next infusion of bro-ness. What will the bots do?


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Alan R.

· 7h 30m ago

I hope the writers read this comment. Nice work in preparing and writing this piece. It is fair-balanced and notes the success of up and coming players. The game could use more younger guys....


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Bret L.

· 6h 22m ago

I’ve never noticed much self-awareness from DeChambeau but fair play to him for recognizing that tournament golf may not be for him and he’d be happier with a career in video production.